Little’s come in all sizes, shapes and ages and identify as different things other than just a Little. Some are subs with a little side. Some are slaves..some are pets…some prefer to be identified not as a little but as a babygirl, or a Loita/middle.
Some are bratty, primal/feral, some require a LOT of care, some are VERY self-sufficient and require just a little. There is no ONE WAY to describe/define who is or what is a Little.
When many envision a Little in the BDSM life style they think someone in their late teens to early 20’s, pacifier in mouth, pig tails on each side of her head, juice box/sippy cup in hand, wearing cute little outfits and a diapered bottom .
Often the little that comes to mind speaks in baby talk and looks like a beautiful little pixie doll just waiting to be picked up and carried around. Come on, how could you not fall in love with a vision like that or not want one for your own?
If your waiting for me to say this description fits me to a tee…well let me kill your joy there, I’m not one of those kinds of girls. I’m not bashing them, I love them as well and count a few as friends and can even direct you to a few websites where you can find them.
So what am I then?
- I’m a 45 yrs old mother of 3 and proud of it!
- I’m not pixie size….I’m plus sized with a LOT of curves
- I enjoy juice boxes but (leans closer to whisper in your ear) I’ve been known to sneak wine coolers into my sippy cup when I think no one is looking (Giggle).
- Do I enjoy a paci, yes but I also enjoy using my Daddy’s personal pole too
- Do I wear a diaper? I’ve got a few more years before I need those hopefully but will keep you posted.
In addition to being a full fledged member of the Little brigade, I have a very strong primal/feline nature that is closely tied to my sensual/sexual nature which means that I have no issues with stalking my prey and taking what I want from time to time. This can sometimes be seen as brattiness but I prefer to see it as a testament to my membership in the Super Villain league (Giggle). Others call it precociousness and to be honest, it allows me to pull them into my little web of cuteness 😉😉😉😉
When it comes to my romantic relationships, I’m naturally submissive to my partner and enjoy serving his needs. This doesn’t mean I’m some weak doormat. In fact, I would say that I am a strong/Alpha sub who is more than capable of caring for myself and my partner should the need arise. I am his property but more than that…I am the Riker to his Picard (or the Spock to his Kirk if you’re not cool enough to like STNG). I am his second in command and the one he turns to and relies on when he needs something.
But let me add another layer, in addition to my need to submit to my partner, I have a strong slave desire to be owned by the one that I love. I am most happy, content, and at peace when I have rules, structure, protocols, and guidance from Him. Knowing what His needs and expectations are, and knowing that I have meet them makes my heart and soul smile. Kneeling in wait for inspection, sitting at His feet in service…these things bring me peace deep in my soul that I am not willing to let go of.
I will never say that I’m the perfect anything. As a matter of fact, I’ve been known to tell potential partners not to call me Princess because I’m really more of a Super Villain. I can be a bit of a brat at times but NEVER in a way that is disrespectful to my Partner.
You are probably thinking that this is a long way from the little’s and babygirl’s that you have seen other places and that is my intent. To show that not only can you be a Little after your 20’s but that you can be MORE than that. There are many ways to being a Little in the BDSM life style so welcome to my journey.